“Giving Up?” My Writer’s Curse….

Giving up and starting over. That is my biggest curse as a writer. I’ve started, oh, about six books. On one, I got almost to the climax, realized just how much I disliked my protagonist, and gave up. Another, I got about half way through it, got a little bored, and pushed it to the back-burner. I’ll finish it later—I know I will; I can’t give up on it yet (we hope)—but I won’t be doing anything with it for a few months, at least. If I’m accurately looking at my future, the soonest I’ll be able to work on it again is maybe December or January.

Another of my novels I wrote for NaNoWriMo. It was absolutely horrible. I won’t go into the details, but it wasn’t very good. Not even good enough to try to revise. In fact, the only good thing about it was that I got all the way to the end. I wrote THE END on it. (Though not literally. I never put that at the end of books.)

But that’s three books. The other three…. Two of them are actually the same book. I wrote it and finished it, realized it needed so much improvement that I needed to rewrite it from the beginning. (And I did so, again and again and again, never finishing before I started over again, for two years, with the only thing staying the same between each draft being the main character.) Eventually I did actually finish another draft that I’m really happy with it. I consider it a separate book because absolutely nothing about the two is the same. Not even, anymore, the protagonist.

And the last book of the six? That’s the one I’m working on right now. And guess what? I am seriously considering starting over again.

See, I’ve noticed a pattern with my novels. The only time I can ever really write the story is when the characters push me to do it. The one that I rewrote over and over for eternity—the reason I never gave up on that one was because I absolutely loved the main character, as well as a few other characters who snuck up on me. For my NaNoWriMo novel, I did like the main characters, though not as much as I could have. But it was enough to get to the end.

With my newest one, the one I’m attempting to write for Camp NaNoWriMo, I can’t get into a single character’s head. Not even my protagonist/narrator. Every time I try, he ends up sounding far too much like one of my other dear characters. But he adopts the other character’s bad traits, not the good ones. In other words, he’s entirely too much alike to her, but not in a good way. I’m not sure I like him at all. My villain isn’t being very villain-y, either. He’s got plenty of villainous traits, but…something’s missing, and I’m not sure what or why. My two lesser main characters have a backstory that’s currently driving the story, but that I know nothing about. They seemed to have interesting personalities when they were first introduced to the story, but then they lost it somewhere.

And perhaps it’s because I never wear my glasses, like I’m supposed to, but I can’t seem to find where they dropped it anywhere.

So here’s where the problem lies. I’m sure, at this rate, I’m going to end up giving up on this novel the way I did for my novel I wrote for Camp NaNo in April. That one had a similar pattern as this. I wrote a lot in the beginning. I have about 8k, when my goal would put me at about 5-6k. Last time, I think I was almost as much ahead as well. Then I got lazy and didn’t write as much…. and started to fall behind.

I panicked and tried to write, and of course, nothing came out. I barely got to my word-count each day, and it was horrible writing each time. Absolutely awful. And then I discovered that I really, really disliked the main character. Some of the others were okay, but the main protagonist was…boring. So I ended up giving up on that novel a week before April ended. I didn’t even write the climax, though I got right up to it.

So how can I avoid this? I see two options. A) Give up now instead of trying to force myself through it. B) Start over and change things, maybe even plan ahead more, so that I don’t run into some of these same problems.

And yet…. I dread starting over. I have spent the last two years, starting over again and again, because each time I wrote something, it wasn’t good enough. So I got rid of it, and started at the beginning again, without any of my previous notes. Started over completely from scratch. And whereas I can say that from doing that, I explored (and fell in love with) my world, plot, and characters more than I probably could have other ways, I do not want to go through that again.

I’m honestly not sure what I should do now. I keep wondering, too, why it’s only that one story that I can keep going back to, and never tire of. Even after two years of it nonstop. What’s different about it? Why can’t I find whatever it is that makes me like it so much, and find that same thing in another book? Why am I so attached to that one, and not another?

So here I am, rambling pointlessly. I realize I can be quite good at rambling when I want to be.


15 thoughts on ““Giving Up?” My Writer’s Curse….

  1. Your words echo my thoughts. I too have one story I keep going back to. One I keep rewriting over and over again because it’s not just right. And I too wonder what sets it apart from the rest.
    In other words, despite your moment stuck in the quick-sand of stories, I loved this post because you gave voice to many of the very problems that are nibbling at my own mind.
    This month has actually been quite a success for me so far, but up until the 1st, I felt the same as you.
    I don’t really know how to help, but know that you’re not alone. You will get through this. 🙂

    1. Knowing that I’m not alone in this is definitely a relief. I’m hoping that eventually, I can find another of those stories that I keep going back to. Until then, I am a bit stuck…

      Well, I hope you have better luck than I do—and that it stays with you. There’s nothing worse than thinking you’re going somewhere, only to have it fall out beneath you.

  2. Wow. That’s interesting. Can’t offer much advice here, but your ramble made sense. Starting over time after time again does sound rather scary. I haven’t had enough experience to tell whether I do this or not. I’ve shelved a lot of story ideas in the past, but that was before I started writing seriously. Nowadays I don’t have a ton of ideas, and I haven’t given up on them yet. We’ll see, though…

    1. I’ve shelved a looootttt of ideas before I started writing seriously, as well. But it was just this one that stood out, and it still is. Rewriting like that was rather scary, I’ll admit, and I really don’t want to do it again.

      Hopefully you’ll never get stuck in that pattern. 🙂

      1. Yeah, hopefully not. And I know how it is to have a character, a story, that just STICKS there. Forgot to mention that. It’s always interesting. 🙂

    1. Yeah… I don’t remember this post much, but if I was talking about the story I was probably talking about, I changed it…roughly three dozen times. I ended up having to shelve that story, and I’ll come back to it later sometime. Hopefully you have a better turnout than I did, hehe!

      Thanks for commenting!

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